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These are awesome tips!!! I consider myself a vet at this, but somebody always knows something you don’t! Thanks so much, you’re awesome! God bless!
good post! the “little things” are what get you the big $$ — and get people asking for you when times are slow. here are a few of my faves that are great attention getters:
1. when you refill tea, pick up spent sweetener packets [i’m a table maintenance ob-com] — and look at the sugar caddy. if it’s low on the packets you picked up, bring more when you bring the refill.
2. don’t hand plates or glasses over the heads of little ones. make a point to say you don’t like doing that.
3. if a guest gets up from the table, fold their napkin and put it next to the plate.
4. ask tables if they would prefer children’s food to come out asap or with entrees. i’ve actually had people get huffy when it’s assumed their raucous brats need to be served quickly! but everyone responds positively to being asked.
5. not just allergy triggers — ask about picky eater triggers as well. “how do you feel about fennel/capers/spicy/etc”. this might save you a trip later as well.
6. speak directly to small children, invalids, and doddering old people, even if someone at the table is speaking for them. be patient. when someone at the table speaks for them, acknowledge both the person speaking and the person being spoken for. this is a show of compassion both for the person and the family coping with that person and it sinks in. it’s a serious stress factor, both having to deal with it, and having to deal with people’s responses to it — and i’ve noticed visible changes in the overall mood of a table after doing this.
7. if time and task management prevent you from doing something at a given moment, preempt the request: “i’ll be right back with [a drink refill/bread/pending cocktail]”.
i gots more, but don’t wanna bore. you know what i love most about this post? it makes me wanna post again, a little. the biz sucks so bad lately where i am i’ve been suffering from serious ennui. haven’t felt funny for a few months, just pissed off, stultified, and bored. reading this post and writing this comment made me feel a little jazzed. maybe that’s what i need! keep the faith, bro … 🙂
Hmmmm, tried to reply directly through my email client, but it didn’t work. Let’s try again using the ole cut’n paste routine:
> New comment on your post “It’s the little things…”
> Author : vandervecken
> URL : http://vandervecken.blogspot.com
i gots more, but don’t wanna bore. you know what i love most about this post? it makes me wanna post again, a little. the biz sucks so bad lately where i am i’ve been suffering from serious ennui. haven’t felt funny for a few months, just pissed off, stultified, and bored. reading this post and writing this comment made me feel a little jazzed. maybe that’s what i need! keep the faith, bro … 🙂
Sounds like it’s time for an expansion of the theme at “How Not To Do Things”.
Right? Right?
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